"It's not what you say. It's how you say it"
Who We Are:
The Oshkosh Civility Project is a grassroots, community-based initiative. We affirm the value and worth of each individual and we also aspire to work in partnership with one another to build stronger, healthier families, communities, businesses, organizations, and schools. By practicing basic commitment to civility, we learn and grow from one another.
Our Vision:
To raise attention and awareness to the principles and the practices of civility. Yes, this is about being “nice”, but it is also about “being involved” and “being responsible” in efforts taking place in the home, workplace, and the community.
Speak Your Peace
Being aware of HOW you speak is so important. Use the nine elements below from our "Speak Your Peace" poster when talking.
Pay Attention
Be aware of others & sensitive to the immediate context of actions
Listen Closely
Understand other points of view
Be Inclusive
Welcome all; don't exclude anyone
Don't Gossip
Remind others of the importance of this practice
Show Respect
Honor others (especially in disagreement)
Be Agreeable
Find opportunities to agree
Apologize Sincerely
Repair damaged relationships
Give Constructive Comments, Suggestions & Feedback
No personal attacks (focus on issues)
Accept Responsibility
Don't shift blame; share disagreements publicly